5 SUBTLE SIGNS YOU'VE FOUND THE ONE

If you've ever been in a crappy relationship that downsized your morale and made you lose sense of who you really were, then you might just be among the many out there who've given up on finding 'a soul mate'.

You're not wrong, but you're not entirely right. The right person's out there. Identitying them could be the challenge.

That said, how do you know he's the one? These subtle, yet substantial signs indicate he's definitely the one you need to hold on to.

1. He Shares It All With You.

It doesn't matter how silly or insignificant, you are the first person he calls to discuss every little details that go on in his life. From why his cat wouldn't eat his breakfast to how he almost ran into a lorry on his way to work.

Why, because you're always on his mind and nothing gives him more joy than picking up the phone to have a good laugh over the silliest things with you.

2. He Seeks Your Opinions

For an ass mostly, he believes your voice doesn't count and so wouldn't bother asking for your thoughts. But for that right guy, nothing else matters to him but what you say - the restaurant to dine the following week, what color you find attractive on him or which route is faster.

He not only asks for your opinions but he follows them through because that's how much your words mean to him. You're his number one in everything.

3. You Are Always Yourself Around Him

With the right person, there's neither a need for pretence, not a reason to fake tiny voice in order to sound attractive.

While physical appearance is important and should be paid attention to, with him, you couldn't care less about wearing make up or putting on the best dress to create an impression.

You're confident that as long as don't look shabby, there need not be unnecessary pressure to look your best always when with him. He sees you for who you are and not just how you look.

4. He Discusses The Future With You

It goes without saying, when you've found the one, the future talk comes up naturally, and sometimes, the word 'we' pops up occasionally.

That means not only does he have a future but he has pictured one with you in it. His present as well as future plans include you and everything that has to do with you. Now, that's one that's worth keeping, don't you think?

5. You Both Live Independently

When you can spend time apart without a sense of insecurities from him, then you've found the one. Many couples, especially at the early stage of their relationship, make the mistake of spending way too much time together because they think they are so attached when in fact they are just insecured.

A real relationship is one when you exist Independently and at the end of the day return to share with each other how your day went.

Finding the one admittedly, can also come with doubts and second guesses. But hey, is there a hundred percent certainty in anything? Nevertheless, when you find these subtle signs in your relationship, don't overlook them, they might just be all the conviction you need to know that you've found the one.