Marriage and a Happily Ever After

Marriage begins on our wedding day where everything is bizarre, the stage is ornamented in flowers and lights and everybody around us all gleam with their brightest smiles sharing our bliss. Marriage goes on and on like a never ending journey of ups, downs, detours, stopovers and breaks. There are even those dark times when we ask ourselves if this is the end. Marriage hitches are sincerely complicated, but as the clouds in our hearts and minds clear, we realize that the resolutions are so unassuming we can do them right away.

Sweet Lovebirds Forever

Let’s continue being the person who moves mountains just to see our lover happy. Turn off the lax button and ensure that every single waking day and every single bed time, our hugs and kisses are what wakes them up and what puts them to sleep. Let us not stop running out of surprise ideas for birthdays, anniversaries or even days when there is nothing special to celebrate. Let us not stop making our partners feel special. Let us show them that we care and we know what they care about through that special delivery coffee in the office because you know that there is a big presentation to make or through an amazing parcel containing tools you’ve researched day and night because our husbands want it.

While we keep the old passion alive, let us make sure to keep everything fresh by doing novel things. We are idea rock stars in terms of thinking what exciting activity to do next, and we can put these never tried activities in action. Most importantly, we can get our partners buy the idea that we do these crazy stuff together like true lovebirds!

To care for our families as long as we live…

When we get married, we vowed not only to love our other half but also everything and everyone that he loves—especially his family. There is nothing more elating than being a part of a new clan with two sets of parents and two sets of siblings to love and to count on.

A healthy time apart

While we value the time we spend with our loving husbands, we also want to have some time apart. This is scientifically proven to be healthy. Our circle of friends should only add in numbers because we are making new contacts and not decrease because we are keeping each other from old and new acquaintances. Let us keep ourselves away from the most common cause of marital fights by allowing each other to be happy in other group’s company and exploring our personalities. At the end of the day, we’ll still go home at each other’s arms, sharing the stories and experiences we had for the day.

When things go rough in marriage, we see a dead end and even feel hopelessness at some point, but let us take time to go back to the basics. We are sweet and thoughtful, and we will always be. We are spontaneous and sometimes silly, and that is okay. We love our partners with all that they are.