5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man

It’s no secret that ladies are usually more emotionally involved in relationships (than men are), so much so they end up losing themselves while trying so hard not to lose a man. If this sounds like you, then you need to read this article more than anyone else.

As a woman, there are certain things you should never have to give up or compromise for a man- or anyone else for that matter. You should have standards you won’t have to bend all in the name of pleasing your man.

So what should you never do for a man- even when ridiculously in love?

1. Give up or ignore your dreams

Your dreams are a part of who you are -if not all. They are your identity and should never be traded - not even for love.

No relationship should cost you your passion. If anything at all, your partner should be a motivator, someone who encourages you to go after your dream, someone who gives you reasons not to give up, not one you have to find reasons to give up your dreams for.

When you have to choose between your career and a man, don’t hesitate to choose yourself first.

2. Be somebody else

Never attempt to pretend to be who you’re not for a man. If your man doesn’t appreciate you for who you are then it’s safe to say that he’s just not right for you.

When you meet the one, he will accept all of you- both your beauty and your flaws -without trying or wanting you to change a thing about it.

3. Be his mother

While this may be literally impossible, most ladies easily take up the roles of their guy’s mother once they start falling in love with him.

From making it an obligation to do his laundry, cook for him, to tidying up his house, running errands and so on. While it’s okay to give your man special treatments now and then, always remember that you’re not his mother. Even his mother stopped doing these things for him years ago.

No lady should be so desperate that she forgets her self- worth and value. It doesn’t matter how taken by him you are, you need to respect yourself enough to know when to draw the line.

4. Beg him to stay

As soon as you realize that your man has lost interest in the relationship, and more importantly, you, walk away. When a man portrays an attitude that clearly reveals that he’s no longer interested in keeping you, don’t you try to make him change his mind, sweetie. There’s no coming back. No matter the reasons you may have to want to him stay, you’ve got to let him go.

The biggest mistake any woman can make is begging a man to stay with her when it’s clear that he doesn’t want to. You know why? because it only shows that she doesn’t know her worth, nor does she respect herself. So what happen? Even if he stays, he’ll never treat you right, he will begin to see. Because you basically just told him that you have

5. Try to Change him

Just like you should never change for a man, don’t try to change a man either. Fine, you can encourage your man, you can help him when the need arises, but never think you can mold him to what you want him to be that he is not- except he’s willing to. Other than that you’d be wasting a valuable part of your time and energy.

If you don’t appreciate your man’s character, point it out to him especially if he wasn’t like that from the beginning of the relationship. If he refuses to yield, leave, it’s as simple as that.